Monday, October 27, 2008
What is a misunderstanding? Is it something that can break the bond between friendships? The bond between friendship is van da waals, ionic or covalent? how strong is it? No matter how strong it is, can it resist the force of the misunderstanding. Is there enuff trust in the 1st place? A friendship can hold up to 10 years, but just 1 misunderstanding, trust gone, everything haywire... fuse melted, switch screw loose...too high current caused the overheating effect...electrolysis took place and the copper spoon is plated! everything happened!
What is opinion? Is it an impression that is given on the 1st time u meet a person? An opinion/impression of others shld nt be easily made or changed. U hav to noe and understand the person...noe is to make an impression, understand is to giv an opinion... If u understand, u wont change ur opinion on that person so easily... (opinion shld nt be changed or set just becox the person is gd to u once/bad to u once or maybe twice) If u believe and trust that person is gd, dun judge him on 1 thing he done...every1 makes mistakes. unless u gt poor eyeside...
What is too much? What is too sensitive? People hu talk and dun care abt feelings is nt beng sensitive to others, whereas people hu cares and infer too much on people's words are being too sensitive. This clearly shows that both of them hav some clashes...therefore if both learn to "move back" things shld be better! One dun read too much the other think be4 talk.
How to due with sarcasm? Is it say nvm la. If u dun fight back, people will get between ur boundary, u feel worse he/she more happy...continue even. What for u unhappy, wad for angry? If u choose to fight back in a polite way, it will stop the whole thing. U can fight back by saying AT LEAST I... I AM STILL...R U TRYING TO SUAN ME?...IS IT CLEAN? ...etc ...this will stop everything mah...u can choose to be bhb abit la becox that person is showing bhb also mah...
What can be changed and wad is character? If some1's character is like that, cant change, people around shld accept. However, if character/attitude bad, if u noe wad is the flaw, shld change. Dun say slowly, try immediately. No1 is perfect, therefore, every1 shld find out their flaws and make changes for the better, be a better person.
Whose fault is it? 公说公有理,婆说婆有理。 actually, in literature, as long as u gt ur explaination, u r rite. No matter how strong it is, is another case. No point how many points there are, becox come to the end even if is 5 vs 10 both also hav faults rite? If yes, then both is in the wrong. So both shld count on friends' face, long time friendship, abit of this and that, just bury the hatchet. No point...dun care? dun bother? avoiding, hallucinating, deluding, nt clean at all...face it bah...The more u dun wan to care, the more u will care...
Labels: My thoughts, my understandings.
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Endless trouble
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
this morning wake up a bit late...father's car key remote battery low cant open the door...manually use the key...siren cant turn off...cant expect us to sit in a car hu's siren is on...ok ..his car is at the top floor...I went up the carpark becox I wan try mah...also cant...father handphone abit spoil spoil...sis clever...while waiting called my mother bring spare key remote down...ok day was saved as she quickly in her fastest speed up the stairs... ok...at last I wan late...by 2 mins ...I was out side the gate doing the mari kita...we citizen ...haiz...ok pick litter as punishment...nt clean la...that teacher...rather embarrassing...so gd boy picking litter...ok later at science centre handphone screen crack...quite serious...I hit my leg over a lousy chair...nt clean la...
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Saturday, October 18, 2008
What I dare but others dare nt...
What I dare nt while others dare...
What I can and others cant...
what I cant when others can...If human were computers then courage thumbdrive can be inserted in...etc...THINGS THAT OTHERS CAN...TELL MYSELF THAT I CAN DO IT!!!! THINGS R SCARY ONLY WHEN I THING AND FEEL IT IS...Do you ever noe today is the how many days from ur death? START TREASURING LIFE...
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What is certain?
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
What is work done with out distance and force? wad is achievements without effort?wad is effort with no success? What is expected but not certain? Things that are expected might nt happen. Effort put in might not expect to receive the achievements. In life there is no pulley system or levels. No small effort to overcome a larger load. There is only a larger force to overcome a small effort. No matter what is the outcome, whether it is expected or unexpected, gd or bad, if best effort is put in, nth much to regret. Although, in a life spend of 14 years, there cant be totally no regrets. I dont noe how many times some1 feels sad or very despaired, but since u r still able to read wad I wrote here, means u have had managed to get pass until today. 人生有很多转角。转角会遇到什么?是惊喜还是惊险。Even after u overcome a problem, the next 1 would be waiting infront for u. Every corner u turn, u will be faced with new people and challengers. Even if u stop moving, people would move towards u as they turn around a corner. When you r shopping, everywhere every corner there would be many new people u meet in ur life. Hu noes, I met u be4 but only noe u 1 year later...fate is really a mysterious thing. The people in u meet seems to be arranged...its nt easy to meet some1 out of the whole world's population. 1 day u r in a car, during the traffic light, ur friend's car happened to be beside urs...oh wow...when u go overseas, u so happen to meet some1 you noe in the restruant...
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yesterday and today
Sunday, October 12, 2008
yesterday I went badminton with my father...ok...nth much...he nits exercise. I set a target to hit continuous 200 times...at lsat we broke it with 328 times...sence of achievement? hahahas...he was happy. so am i.Today I went to the park with my mother. She also nits exercise. I wantedto cycle. but my sis's bicycle wasnt suitable for me...hahahaha...last time I dun seem to mind...nw I mind alot. nvm. So I went to the exercise corner. then after that go eat at a CC (tampines centre cc)it has been a long time since I been there with some friends... ya...ya...eat the same thing drink the same...I didnt change...hav I? then my father came to join us. then nth much liao loh...
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10/10/08
Friday, October 10, 2008
Exam is over. However, the scarier thing is still getting back the result. The whole year's effort is all put on the papers. No matter how bad or gd the out come is, I guess it is how much u deserve it bah. Y will careless lei? 1+1=2 will careless ? so if u learn everything as clear as 1+1=2, then will nt careless liao mah. So many papers, it is impossible nt to make any careless mistakes de la...regret gt use meh?nth much liao la...
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oh yes?
Wednesday, October 01, 2008
omg? oh yes I am getting fatter... last weight was 48kg...now was 55kg...ever since cca stopped...7kg increased...stress caused me to eat more...isnt it? maybe stress cause people to eat less...this 1...depends...on my mood...exam is coming soon...revision starts on this hari raya day...happy hari raya! and hav a nice day...dun revise ur work becox I nit to catch up... hahahabye bye
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