What is a misunderstanding? Is it something that can break the bond between friendships? The bond between friendship is van da waals, ionic or covalent? how strong is it? No matter how strong it is, can it resist the force of the misunderstanding. Is there enuff trust in the 1st place? A friendship can hold up to 10 years, but just 1 misunderstanding, trust gone, everything haywire... fuse melted, switch screw loose...too high current caused the overheating effect...electrolysis took place and the copper spoon is plated! everything happened!
What is opinion? Is it an impression that is given on the 1st time u meet a person? An opinion/impression of others shld nt be easily made or changed. U hav to noe and understand the person...noe is to make an impression, understand is to giv an opinion... If u understand, u wont change ur opinion on that person so easily... (opinion shld nt be changed or set just becox the person is gd to u once/bad to u once or maybe twice) If u believe and trust that person is gd, dun judge him on 1 thing he done...every1 makes mistakes. unless u gt poor eyeside...
What is too much? What is too sensitive? People hu talk and dun care abt feelings is nt beng sensitive to others, whereas people hu cares and infer too much on people's words are being too sensitive. This clearly shows that both of them hav some clashes...therefore if both learn to "move back" things shld be better! One dun read too much the other think be4 talk.
How to due with sarcasm? Is it say nvm la. If u dun fight back, people will get between ur boundary, u feel worse he/she more happy...continue even. What for u unhappy, wad for angry? If u choose to fight back in a polite way, it will stop the whole thing. U can fight back by saying AT LEAST I... I AM STILL...R U TRYING TO SUAN ME?...IS IT CLEAN? ...etc ...this will stop everything mah...u can choose to be bhb abit la becox that person is showing bhb also mah...
What can be changed and wad is character? If some1's character is like that, cant change, people around shld accept. However, if character/attitude bad, if u noe wad is the flaw, shld change. Dun say slowly, try immediately. No1 is perfect, therefore, every1 shld find out their flaws and make changes for the better, be a better person.
Whose fault is it? 公说公有理，婆说婆有理。 actually, in literature, as long as u gt ur explaination, u r rite. No matter how strong it is, is another case. No point how many points there are, becox come to the end even if is 5 vs 10 both also hav faults rite? If yes, then both is in the wrong. So both shld count on friends' face, long time friendship, abit of this and that, just bury the hatchet. No point...dun care? dun bother? avoiding, hallucinating, deluding, nt clean at all...face it bah...The more u dun wan to care, the more u will care...
Labels: My thoughts, my understandings.
